psychology

Presumptious assholes

Flaws, friends, gossipers, idiots, People, psychology

So many people presume what they think you must think,what they do you must be doing,their beliefs are your beliefs,”idiots”

There’s people I know who borrow money off family members knowing they can’t afford to give it themselves and presume I must be doing the same because I go on holidays etc,errrrr no I work and save,I don’t borrow and don’t have a money tree,if I can’t afford something I don’t have it,I don’t like to borrow.

Then there’s the ones who complain about their husbands and children and then the silence waiting for you to speak about yours,again no I won’t bad mouth my family I have no complaints,even if I did I wouldn’t speak behind their backs.

Then there’s the racists and homophobic moron’s who think it’s ok to make racial slurs and homophobic remarks,not ok at all

I don’t think like you,I don’t have the same values as you,I don’t act like you…

I am me and you are you.

Real life dementors

Flaws, People, psychology
  • Screenshot_20190718_090436IMG_20190716_115526_941.jpgWhy is it rude if I were to tell someone to stfu or walk away from a conversation? Well not exactly a conversation when it’s one sided and I’m having someone talking at me non stop about themselves, It’s hard to get one word in and if you manage it it gets reverted back to themselves again, me me me and me. It’s the same shit you’ve heard time and time again so it’s not just a random venting rant day were sometimes you just have to get things off your chest,It’s all the goddam time. It’s draining.

However with the passage of time you start to feel that person becomes a bit of a burden,They tell you the same shit over and over again.They are the type of person who feels authorized to talk about any subject, although they don’t know anything about it. And nobody can get them to shut up.

After you talk to that kind of person, you feel like you have wasted your time. Because ultimately it wasn’t a conversation it was a sparring match in a monologue, That’s why it’s likely that when you find that person again, you’ll make up some excuse to avoid another chat.

Actually, it doesn’t even cross their mind that their droning on and on can bore others. And if they are told this directly, they will assume that the problem lies with the other person, not within themselves.

They have excessive need for all the attention  to be focused on them.They feel gratification if they can get others to listen to them all the time. They perceive this as proof of their own worth. This type of person fails to get in tune with other people’s desires. Instead, they always revolve around their own needs.

People who talk non stop obviously have a great need to be heard or listened to. Though they might not be saying anything at all. Talking with other people distracts them from the inner dialogue that each one of us maintains with ourselves. That person doesn’t want to listen to themselves. They only want to be heard. They look at themselves through other people.

You can’t offer advice as they’ve done that,can’t do that,that won’t work, just all and any excuses.

They’ve always got it bad,no one else has ever had or has it bad,no one else has problems of their own only them.

Because they are vocal about everything and others aren’t,you have no gripes of your own.Everyone else has problems too.