I feel I have to write this to get this out my system.So my husband works for himself and I work part time.Now we do ok,we don’t go out much socialising,we don’t drink smoke or take drugs,we don’t have to buy designer or latest fashions and gadgets…we save.Now some people think they have an entitlement to have a bit of stuff because they think all my husband does is sit there as a business owner…press a button and money comes from a money tree in our garden.They don’t see the hard work 7 days a week.So far it’s been hinted that we should pay for someone else’s debts that they’ve run up by buying lots of things by spending above their means.Ive been asked to pay for someone else to come on holiday with us.Ive been told to give my new winter coat to someone else as they can’t afford one because they don’t work (they choose not to work as a lifestyle choice not because they can’t work).I’ve been told why don’t I move and buy this house instead which was 300 thousand over our budget.People have no idea of the concept of prices and costs.Why should we work hard for ourselves and children but pay for other family’s coats,holidays,debt.No one owes you nothing in life 😡